I just had my first true taste of what it's going to be like being PTA President next year. I got yelled at in the school parking lot......by a friend! Holy crap! It's raining and everyone is late. A lot more parents drive their kids to school when it's raining. They queue up in the parking lot to drop off. The parking lot was a tad bit more chaotic than usual. The line was long, so I got off the line, parked on the street and walked my kids to the door. While on the way, I see a very close girlfriend (in her car) who had a scary look on her face. The window goes down and the tirade began....I was so surprised, I couldn't really speak. Not sure she was serious, I almost laughed, but ....uh, she was serious. Are you kidding me? So, of course, I thought about this the whole way home, really proud of myself for not getting upset. It was just too ridiculous. Obviously she's having a really BAD morning. But I know that this is my future and I can't do what I'd really like to do which is say, "What? Is your finger broken? Call the school yourself and complain." But I no can do that anymore. I'm now a diplomat. I must behave. Crap. Thus I thought about some stock answers for just such tirades. I think my new knee jerk response will be: "I'll take that under advisement." Have a nice day.
There have been several realms in which I had to serve as R.A. for
grownups. I try to keep tihngs light but it still irritates me. Finger
broken indeed.
"I'll take that under advisement," is much more appealing than, "Bite me."
I don't envy your role.
Better you than me.
The PTO was something I never got roped into. For which I will be
eternally grateful.